26 Ago Jeremy – how will you really understand the encounter your explain might in fact become exactly how ones friend’s spouse might respond?

We do not recognize for certain, Paula. We admitted just as much preceding. Still I’d gamble one reasonable amount of cash upon it, as well as I’m definitely not reperlly a gambler. Become evident, we do not presume the increasing loss of attraction/respect would definitely come as a result of known reality concerning their searching treatments. I really believe she’d feel very happy to find out him seek work and help to himself….as extended because doing this didn’t choose him from their part. So long as that it leads to their to be happier upon their white horse. Then again that he now realizes his ideas about masculinity came from a place of dysfunction and that he is no longer satisfied with the way their marriage is set up, that he now wants her to get a job and start contributing to the upkeep of their marriage, that he now sees that the division of their responsibilities is the source of his stress and that it was all built on the feet of clay of his dysfunctional ideals of masculinity….